It dawned on me one day that we as women are responsible for the birth of men. Without women, men wouldn't exist. Have you ever actually thought how powerful that is? To know that we birth children. We are the reason the world keeps growing. I sometimes look at guys in disgust when I see how they treat women. Knowing that a woman is the reason you're even here on this earth. Maybe if they viewed it this way they would value women more. Lets not just blame men. We are in control!
That ladies is Power Of The P!
When you think of it, what we have in between our legs is precious and of value. So ask yourself why would you allow someone who doesn't deserve it, have it so easily. Throughout my early 20s I was the girl who literally allowed my hormones to cause me to not make smart decisions. If a guy shows interest in you and you're horny you let him smash? Did he take you a date? Can you call him if your car breaks down? Can you call him at 2am if there was a emergency? I wasn't thinking that way. Because of that I got my feelings hurt a lot. Thinking its just sex, but what did I actually get out of it but a nut. Lets keep it real, are men really putting in effort to make sure you get yours?
It all goes back to having self worth and knowing your worth. When you know your worth and value your P, you move differently and move like a true bad bitch. A true bad bitch is not going to lay on her back for a man who doesn't respect her, or cant provide for her. That is how I live my life now being a mature adult woman. You have to believe you're worth the best and deserve the best. When you start to believe that and live by it, you attract better. Certain men will know they can't approach you with anything less because you're a woman of value. They will look at you as the type of woman they need to get their sh*t together before they even ask for your number. Emotionally, and financially. That ladies is power, and you hold power. Being in control of what happens and the outcome is in our control. Sleeping with a guy on the 1st date and being hurt when he doesn't hit you up for another date isn't power. Sleeping with a guy on the first date and not having any intentions of seeing him again you hold the power.
The saying CLOSED LEGS DONT GET FED is a lie. It all depends on how you value yourself and what you actually want. When a guy truly likes you he will not give up. A guy who only has intentions of sex will normally not wait around for the P. They wont put any effort into getting to know you and building a connection with you. I have met a few guys like that and its always so fulfilling to know I weeded out the snakes early.
Gunna has a song with Drake that I love called P Power. The lyrics on the other hand truly sum up how some men look at us when they get the P. I laughed when I read the lyrics because he is saying how powerful our P is. So to know that men get so weak in the knees for it. Wouldn't that make you want to make them earn it?
How To Take Back Your Power
- Demand respect! If a man doesn't respect you as a woman then why would you lay on your back for someone like that.
- Control your hormones. I am a advocate of masturbation. Sometimes you the temperature is rising and you feel like you cant control yourself. Start taking care of yourself before you meet up with him. This helps when you are meeting up with a guy you really are sexually attracted to.
- As yourself why are you so easy! Hate to say it like that but its real. Are you doing it because you truly enjoy the sex or are you seeking attention or to be wanted?
- Be Picky who you even entertain. There are some guys you have no business even entertaining. Don't even get involved with guys who have nothing going on for themselves n life.