The most annoying feeling for a woman is laying next to a guy after bad sex. Bad sex doesn't always mean the sex itself was bad. Leaving a woman feeling unsatisfied is also bad sex. It's like going to a new restaurant that looked great on the outside, but once you got there and tried the food it wasn't all that. It was BLAH!
Men don't realize that bad sex for a woman is the biggest deal breaker. Size is not always the issue. Let's keep it real girls, a lot of grown ass men don't know their own strokes and movements. They think because they are big in size that's all is needed. The same way they put effort into getting meat out of crab legs, put the same effort into your woman during sex. From most women I have spoken to, the number one problem is ..
Women are soft, and gentle naturally. Sex is all about the anticipation. Foreplay is cool if that's what you're into. Kissing, licking, sucking are all some key things guys can do to lead into sex. Make her want it by teasing her. Their major problem is no patience. They want to dive in, get their nut and go to sleep. All in 1-5 mins while you're laying their unsatisfied feeling used and unwanted.
Men think women are like jack rabbits who want to go on and on all night. I have even heard the line, "You'll just lay there." They're so one sided to understand the length of sex is not the problem. Them not fulfilling their sexual duties by making sure their woman is satisfied is the issue.
I remember in my last relationship he would wake up the next morning confused as to why I was so upset. Had the nerves to say "I know you not mad about last night?" Of course after satisfying him and 3 mins in he gets what he needed and falls into a deep coma of sleep after wards, I would be pissed off.
It got to the point I was so turned off by it I hit my ex up the day after. At least he knew and understood my body. That was a deal breaker for me. So what your sex is good, but if 80% of the time you're selfish and inconsiderate to her needs it's not worth it.
So the big question is...
Sex is a big cause for break-ups and infidelity in relationships. People we who aren't satisfied tend to wander off. Most people don't like to admit it, but I will. Sex is very important in relationships. So if you decide to stay talk to your guy about your desires. A lot of your men don't even know you're not sexually satisfied, because you don't talk to them.