How can you truly love someone if you don't love yourself. Love & Happiness all begins within. You have to truly love the person you see in the mirror everyday. Life can be hard and confusing for people who don't know who the hell they are.
There are allot of people who put down others on a daily because they aren't happy with who they are. The main people yelling "I'M THE SHIT" are the main ones unhappy in life and lost. You can't be the shit if you are constantly change yourself to get approval from others.
In relationships we women want a man to love us with all their heart. But how can you expect, or want love if you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself how can you be mad at him for not loving a person who don't even love themselves. Real recognize real. Love recognize love as well.
Get to know yourself, learn what you are good at. Figure out your favorite face feature. Those little things matter and helps to build confidence. You can not wait for somebody to tell you how beautiful you are. Tell yourself everyday how damn sexy you are. Once you learn to love yourself you will learn to know your worth and what you deserve in life.